The hubs and I had a great conversation about this town on the long ride back from Kansas.
We made a huge pros and cons list, one for Grand Rapids and one for Toronto. Very unlike either of us... but it helped us visualize why we would want to move, and what is holding us back from taking the dive.
We ended by concluding that when we were dating and engaged, all we wanted was to have an adventure. Now, we're comfortable and secure (albeit jobless) here. And if we want to actually embrace an adventure, it's time to commit to diving in.